Couples Therapy

The relationship is suffering.

You love each other, but it’s not working.

You often feel like you may be in the same room but are not in the same place in the relationship.

You undoubtedly love this person, but at some point, your feelings for one another took a back seat to something else.

The problem could be work, ambition, the kids, or even friends. Creating this problem was not done intentionally.

At one point, things were terrific.

Your relationship was like sitting at the top of a ferris wheel where you both were on top of the WORLD, and you could see the future so clearly.

You had goals and dreams that you talked about together. You were both determined to get there no matter what.

However, that vision changed for you or both partners at some point. Not only are you looking in two different directions, but neither of you can understand the other’s perspective because you both are looking at two different things.

If you do nothing, you will grow resentment toward one another. The person who was once your best friend, partner, and lover will become your worst enemy. The goals you established together will begin to seem unattainable, and sadly, you will lose your person.

How do you change from suffering to thriving?

It is my responsibility first to identify where the disconnect is. Once we recognize this, we will discuss the most important things to you individually and how we can connect these values and help you both begin to run in the same direction instead of pulling away from one another.

However, the first step is realizing who you are as individuals, so we can see where you are going together.

Let’s learn how to work through this RELATION-SHIFT together.